Rape Kits/Sexual Assault Forensics Exams (SAFE)
Background
What is a sexual assault forensics exam (SAFE)?
A SAFE is a free, multi-step exam for victims of rape or sexual assault. It is commonly referred to as a "rape kit," though the kit is only one part of the process. In addition to gathering DNA/physical evidence of your rape or assault, during a SAFE you may also receive emergency care, a head-to-toe examination, questions about your medical history, questions about your recent consensual sexual activity, and the medical providers may take photos of the evidence. Not every SAFE will include every step. A SAFE must be conducted no more than 96 hours after the crime has occurred.
SOURCES: University of Chicago, RAINN
Map of where to SAFEs in NYC
Hotlines and Other Organizations
Hotlines
You can call 911. Rape and sexual assault are crimes that emergency services can help you deal with.
You can call 800-656-4673. This hotline is operated by the Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network. You will be connected with a real person. It is available 24/7.
You can call 1-800-942-6906. This is the New York State Domestic and Sexual Violence hotline, which can connect you with rape crisis programs.
Helping a Loved One
No matter how much you may love or care for someone who has been a victim of sexual assault, you are likely not trained. The best thing you can do is help connect your loved one with victim support services. You can start by calling one of the hotlines above.
It is important to remember that the victim is never at fault and for you to avoid victim blaming. Going through sexual assault can already cause trauma or other negative psychological effects; do not add on to this by making the victim feel guilty for what they have gone through. The victim is never at fault because, by definition, they had no choice or consent in the actions. What the victim might have been wearing or doing is not an excuse for the perpetrator.
The best thing you can do for someone who has experienced sexual assault is be there for them. Listen to them if they want to speak or share. Support their decisions. Ask them what they need and do your best to support that.
It can be difficult to watch someone you love struggle. Remember to care for yourself and your own mental health. Call or text 988 for free, confidential crisis counseling and support.